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YOUR TASTE AND INTUITION MATTER

27 SEPTEMBER 2024

Planning a wedding is a deeply personal journey, and choosing the right vendors to bring your dream day to life is one of the most significant decisions you'll make. From florists to photographers, your vendors play a critical role in shaping the experience of your wedding. While recommendations, reviews, and portfolios are essential factors, one of the most valuable tools you have during this process is your intuition—trusting your taste and feeling to find partners that truly align with your vision

Here’s why trusting your instincts is just as important as the practical steps when selecting the perfect wedding vendors.

1. Vendor Are Your Creative Partners

Think of your vendors as creative partners who will help you bring your vision to reality. Whether it’s a cake designer, florist, or wedding planner, these are people who need to understand your personality, style, and preferences to create something truly unique to you. While researching their work is important, pay attention to how you feel when interacting with them. Do they listen to your ideas and genuinely understand your vision? Is there a sense of trust and ease in communication? A strong connection with your vendors will ensure they can translate your ideas into a beautiful reality. If you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and you click on a personal level, it’s a good sign that you’ve found the right match.

2. Follow Your Gut on Style and Taste

When selecting vendors, especially for creative roles like photography, floral arrangements, and décor, it’s important to trust your taste. Every couple has a unique aesthetic, and what works for someone else’s wedding may not be right for you. As you browse portfolios or visit wedding fairs, ask yourself, “Does this resonate with my style?” If something doesn’t feel right or aligned with your vision, don’t hesitate to move on—even if a vendor comes highly recommended by friends or family. There are countless talented professionals in the wedding industry, and the key is to find those who match your taste. Whether you prefer a modern and minimalist look or a classic and romantic vibe, trust your inner compass to guide you toward the right vendors.

3. Pay Attention to First Impressions

First impressions often say a lot about the people you’ll be working with. When you first meet a vendor or talk to them on the phone, notice how they make you feel. Do they seem genuinely interested in your vision, or are they just pushing their own agenda? Are they responsive and communicative, or do they leave you feeling uncertain? You’ll be working closely with these vendors throughout the wedding planning process, so it’s crucial to feel confident and at ease. If a vendor feels dismissive or uninterested during the initial consultation, it might be a sign that they aren’t the right fit for you. On the other hand, if they listen, engage, and make you feel excited about the process, you’re likely in good hands.

4. Flexibility and Understanding Are Key

No matter how much you plan, things can change, and flexibility is key when it comes to wedding vendors. The best vendors are those who are adaptable and willing to accommodate your evolving needs. Trust your instincts about how willing a vendor is to be flexible. During your initial conversations, ask yourself if the vendor seems open to suggestions and willing to make adjustments if necessary. Do they make you feel like a priority? If you feel a sense of collaboration and mutual respect, you’ve likely found a partner who will stand by you through the twists and turns of wedding planning.

5. Intuition Over Trends

In today’s world, it’s easy to get swept up in wedding trends and ideas from social media. While it’s fun to gather inspiration, the key to a memorable wedding is authenticity. Trust your intuition over fleeting trends. If something doesn’t feel right or authentic to you and your partner, it’s okay to walk away from it. Don’t feel pressured to conform to the latest fads if they don’t align with your personal tastes. When meeting with vendors, express your true preferences rather than simply following what's trendy. The vendors that match your vision will respond to your genuine ideas and help create a day that feels uniquely yours.

6. Embrace the Emotional Connection

Weddings are about more than just aesthetics and logistics—they’re about emotion, celebration, and love. The vendors who can understand and capture the emotional essence of your wedding are the ones who will help you create lasting memories. Whether it’s a photographer who understands the intimate moments or a planner who can navigate family dynamics with care, finding vendors who connect with your emotions is crucial. If you feel a sense of empathy, warmth, and understanding from a vendor, they’re more likely to create a wedding that feels personal and heartfelt. Trust that feeling when making your final decision.

7. Trust the Process

At the end of the day, wedding planning can be stressful, but trusting your gut and leaning on your personal taste will guide you in the right direction. Remember, your wedding is a reflection of your love story, and the vendors you choose should enhance and celebrate that story in their own way. You deserve to work with people who not only understand your vision but also respect your feelings and ideas along the way.

Trusting your taste and feelings is a powerful tool in creating a wedding that feels authentic, personal, and unforgettable.

When you follow your intuition and surround yourself with vendors who align with your values and vision, you’ll create a day that’s not just beautiful, but deeply meaningful. -MS